You might read tons of articles and heard tons more of podcasts on how to have realistic relationships for a happier and more stable and easy-flow love life, but sometimes we get lost in the way about the reason that we do something for. It gives us some kind of fear, insecurity and losing ourselves especially if it was something that has much impact on our lives. letting your relationships living to your expectations isn’t something that most of us capable of doing, but somehow you find yourself ending up in a sticky situation where you can’t figure out what you should do or what you want.
I have experienced that a lot and the most hurting and killing when you know that it is too late to fix what you get yourself in, you feel like everything is falling down and you can’t put all your life together. For me, I played things in the hard way when I was trying to get everything going cool and chill. I didn’t mind putting things in the right order and clear everything up and I kept burying my head in the sand just to feel that everything is fine but the truth is I was only shitting myself up not anyone else. I don’t think that how we to be realistic is what really matters it is WHY TO BE is what we should look up for.
Take yourself out of labyrinth
It is the first bonus you can get for setting such expectation and realistic lines for your relationships, this isn’t necessary to be counted for your love life. Knowing, where your relationship with anyone will go with anyone, let you set on a firm foundation to start building your next steps for a more balanced life away from hectic irresponsible relationships loops.
Discover who you are
What you get and should look for in any relationship, being clear about what you want, love, search in any life partner help you to know who you are as a person and from that, you can collect more and more through your life journey for that don’t let anyone tell you what you want because only you have the choice.
Grow up as a person
Relationships shouldn’t only be about the frizziness we get in our belly or the texts we receive in the morning and night, it is a chance to grow more on the personal level and take a whole new leap in our path so don’t deal with as something BROWED it is one of the most pivotal aspects in our lives.
It is a gift
To find someone to complete the road with a person that understands, supports, and shelter you in your loneliness. Feeling safe and belonged to a caring human being is what we all searching for.
Be careful with your choices, appreciate what you get, and don’t let anyone take you for granted always set realistic expectations, don’t lie to yourself, and know that you deserve to get what you want.